Monday, December 25, 2006

lately, my gf has been showing symptoms of being non-committal when it comes to being my wedding coordinator - a job that she has always been saying she would help me with when i get married.

I find that extemely annoying to say the least because i have always thought that she wanted to do me the favour since that's her forte and because she has said so and I have expected her to fill the position naturally.

today Christmas morning I sense the grudginess in her when I talked about her "job" and my expectation that if anything goes wrong I will come after her.

I said the second part because she has forgotten all the details that I have talked to her about.
And I wanted her to be a little more zealous in the job and not adding to another one of my woes.
I already have enough on my plate at the moment.

perhaps she feels this way because she's not being paid or so she thinks?
or is it because she has done her friends' wedding and she's now tired of it?

I just find that if that's the reason, then she's not being very fair to me.
And I did not intend for her to do it for free.

i am beginning to think of alternatives to having another coordinator if she doesnt want the job. I rather she tell me now than to let me know last minute.

while i hope that she will continue to be my coordinator because she's been a very close friend of mine for more than 10 years, i will gladly remove her from that position if she doesnt feel like taking it on.

Because I would rather my wedding goes on without a hitch than to worry about all the details on the day itself.

Labels: disappointment, expectations, friends, wedding