Wednesday, December 13, 2006

Just the week past, i make a horrifying discovery. An ex-colleague, also my agent apparently mistook my wedding date for a date this month.

About 1 - 2 weeks earlier than that, i met him to indicate a change in my investment plan and had verbally mentioned to him that I intended to invite him to my wedding as the date nears. He had asked me for my cards, but apparently my cards are not ready yet.

Perhaps, he thought me to be me to be an insincere person that's why i did not give him cards even though i had verbally invited him to the dinner.

That made me wonder, what make him form this impression.

Perhaps one consolation is that, he's not a close friend?

but to be honest that's one warning bell that indicate that people does have this perception of me. While I don't think deserve this label because i have been earnest in my dealing with people whom i called friends, I also understand that I cannot stop people from gossiping or from forming such impression because they do not know me at all.

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Just like my MIL can't stop me from talking about her when she irritates me.

Labels: impression, listener, people